ZFG (zero fucks given, otherwise known as aloofness &
indifference, or outcome independence) is a fundamental principle of
seduction that will rarely fail a man adhering to it. But there are
those times during a courtship, infrequent but pregnant with suspenseful
uncertainty, when a man would do well to give a girl a small token of
his attainability, which is expressed with a fleeting affair with
sincerity. In other words, you need to occasionally swap your shitlord
for your lovelord. Reader Mr. Meaner demonstrates,
OT game post, but sort of related.
Text convo I had with a chick recently.
Her: You’ve made me so horny today. Can’t wait to see you again.
Her: Can I ask you a question?
Me: Yes, it is a full 8 inches.
Her: Lol. Are you sleeping with anybody else atm?
Me: Only your sister
Her: So no?
Me: Haha, why would you ask me that? You sound like my wife. Except my wife is on vacation at the moment.
Her: Haha. What are you doing this weekend?
Run of the mill shit test, but notice how you have to shift the frame
slightly when she persists beyond the smart-ass flirty responses. CH
has touched on this before. One or two smart-ass responses is good game,
but being a total shitlord with zero sincerity is too transparent. The
“Why would you ask me that?” is a solid reframe in this situation.
Note this: A chick who’s horny and can barely control herself around
you will shit test you to find any excuse to lose those out-of-control
tingles. They’re scary for her, because they’re real, and so few
real-life guys give them to her. Don’t give her the easy excuse she
needs to extinguish them by answering her concerns like a sperg.
I give this Text Game an A+. Perfect execution. Lots of great
teasing, taunting, negging, and amused mastery. No beta apologetics or
defensiveness or sappy romanticism. The moment of sincerity — not too
direct, but just a glancing blow delivering a glimpse of “realness” —
comes when Meaner says “why would you ask me that?”, followed by a quick
cocky jab of humor, taken all together providing the right amount
genuine response to the girl’s yearning desire to know whether he was
sleeping with any other women, (in turn lowering her anti-slut defense
This is how it’s done. A lot of jerkboy game seasoned with a sprinkle
of vulnerability game. Tat for tit. All play and a little work make
Jack a sexy boy.